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唯美晨阳 发表于 2012-6-7 20:32:48 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
我们这个民族自古非常讲究吃喝,城里到处都是酒家、饭店,外地人吃,本地人吃,过节吃,平时吃,请人吃,自己吃……,由吃引申出了系列的吃的概念、喝的艺术,造就了一批美食家、品酒师。
    魏晋时期,名士迭出,但最富特色的,要数刘伶。刘伶是"竹林七贤"之一。"七贤"中,如阮籍嵇康等,多富文采,以诗文贤。刘伶文采平平,何以为贤呢?原来刘伶酒才颇高,以酒贤。刘伶文采虽亏,却也有一篇短文传世,这便是《酒德颂》。文中说他"止则卮执斛,动则掣杯提壶",已见其爱酒之深。魏晋时期,"老庄"盛行,士族多崇尚自然,鄙弃礼法。刘伶也许对"老庄"哲学理解得最深刻,有时雅兴上来,便在屋里脱光了衣服饮酒。有的礼法之士觉得不堪入目,上门责备他,刘伶便反戈一击,"天地是我的阁楼,住室是我的裤子。你怎么钻到我的裤子里来了?"----死饮。在家里喝腻了,刘伶便到外面喝。于是,他驾起鹿车,载几坛美酒,悠悠然出发了。车行人饮,别有风味。但更有意思的是,每次"酒游",他的车后总要载一位扛一把铁锹的仆人。有人不解,问他,刘伶便醉醺醺地一乐,"咳,一旦醉死,就地一埋,省得麻烦。"----计饮。刘伶如此饮法,妻子受不了了,便对他搞"经济制裁"。没钱,怎么饮酒呢?刘伶心生一计,对妻子说,"要我戒酒,需有神助,得祷告上天。"妻子便摆上香案,出去买来酒肉设上供,让刘伶对神起誓,从此戒酒。刘伶便跪下来,赋"打油诗"一首,"天生刘伶,以酒为名,一饮一斛,五斗解酲,妇人之言,甚不可听。"吟毕,又大嚼狂饮起来。
     那么,刘伶为什么如此嗜饮呢?据史家分析,这并非一味放纵,而是一种自我保护手段。当时,朝政黑暗,士林中人,稍有不慎就有断头的危险。酒海浮沉,诸事不问,就安全多了。史载,魏晋之际,"名士少有全者",而刘伶"以寿终"。看来,刘伶爱酒倒并没有白爱,杯中之物对他也算是有以回报了。
     存在就是合理,合理就是讲究,讲究就是策略,策略就是艺术。
     如今,朋友之间的交流、上下级之间的沟通,都是正常的饮酒。和兄弟喝酒,不畅快无法流露兄弟情谊;和领导喝酒,不拼命不能体现干群关系……。同样是喝酒,不同的感受。三两好友,大鱼大肉亦可,几个小菜也罢,把酒言欢,好不自在。和上司喝酒,肯定是作陪。饮酒作陪要调整思路跟着领导走,吃饭也不例外。观点要谨慎,不得逆着领导说;领导不动筷,你也得干看着;领导一举杯,你就得一饮而尽,先干为敬;领导不胜酒力,你就要得扑上去挡酒……。出差办事若是碰上难题,也得要用灌酒这一看家本领。某人为了追回几十万的欠款,与欠债方的厂领导整整连喝了三天,终于要回了欠款,付出的代价就是躺在担架上被飞机运回来。
     人生活在这个世界上,没有一个人不想让自己的人生辉煌,但私心里其实也许只有一条:在具体生活的"酒桌"上争取一个名额。《红楼梦》里史湘云劝诫贾宝玉:"如今大了,你就不愿去读书考举人进士的,也该常常地会会这些为官做宰的人们,谈谈讲讲这些仕途经济的学问,也好将来应酬事务"。这里的应酬就是扬名立世赖以生存的手段。要在人海茫茫的圈子里混,就不得不和形形色色的人物打交道,不管你是紫禁城里的皇帝,还是"隐于市、隐于野"的俗人。不管你是宽袍大袖的古时人,还是西装革履的现代人,都离不开应酬这个俗套,不懂吃喝的艺术门也没有。
     其实,多数人喝酒并非出于自愿,如同一个对食物没有欲望的饭者,不过是出于礼节陪吃而已。这种人,不是喝酒,而是陪酒,不是主动,而是被动,不是演员,而是观众,不是酒坛的主人,而是执瓮的仆童,不是冲锋陷阵的战士,而是烧饭挑担的伙夫。由于各种原因,我也已经好几次宣布"金盆洗手"。可是进了饭局,我的戒酒宣言只能是一次又一次的空话。有时因为别人的"将军",酒不但得喝,而且常被整得酩酊大醉。现在害得我在家里一提戒酒的事,老婆就要让我"别吹牛了",儿子也视我为一个说话不算数的家伙。
     每至饭局,常闻酒量大者埋怨,说是喝酒最怕"红脸蛋儿的,梳小辫儿的,带药片儿的"。其实那是酒场弱者的一种迂回"艺术"。酒量小者忐忑不安,多善周旋,劝酒之时,或央或求或胁迫或巧言,总之要使别人多喝自己少饮,甚以灌醉别人为能。依我观察,微醉憨态尚且可掬,烂醉如泥多是可憎。我也见过喝高出丑的人,有的口出不逊之言,伤人和气;有的当场滑下椅子,现场直播;有的横卧闹市大街,人事不省;有的歪倒路边渠沟,鼾声如雷……。
     我的一位
石家庄网的好友担任某个企业的七品白领,一年的工作时间两千七百多个小时,疲于应酬就占一千五百多个小时,原先有人对此作风很有意见。他在一次群众大会上说,谁愿意喝酒?谁又愿意喝醉?你们哪个有意见?好,让你顶我一个星期,能行的话,这个官我就让你当了!……结果,无人上台接招。于是他理直气壮地每天喝酒不止。说来也怪,打那以后倒还没有什么议论了。
     毛泽东说过,革命不是请客吃饭。《红灯记》里鸠山设下"鸿门宴",也并非真的让人去吃饭。李玉和"临行喝妈一碗酒",说是到了那里"千杯万盏回应酬",这个"应酬",其实就是酒场上生死搏斗的"策略"。现在时代不同了,有些时候的"革命","不是请客就是吃饭",饭局说的是吃饭,然而它的实质却是斗酒或者别的,你说若是遇上这种场合,在"名士少有全者"的情状下,想像刘伶一般"以寿终",不讲"策略"行否?!
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